...tende paciência e suportai. Já há alguns meses que não ocorria aqui um evento lamechas e xaroposo, pelo que já está em boa hora. Além do mais, apetece-me.
Herbert e Zelmyra Fisher, que casaram em 1924 e têm 104 e 102 anos respectivamente "convidaram" todos a colocar as suas questões sobre o segredo dum casamento de oitenta e cinco - 85! - anos. O site é http://twitter.com/longestmarried e, obviamente com a ajuda de alguém (provavelmente um dos seus 5 filhos, 10 netos, 9 bisnetos e 1 trineto), responderam às questões no passado dia 14. Algumas das respostas são duma simplicidade estonteante e deslumbrante.
Q: Is fighting important?
A: NEVER physically! Agree that it’s okay to disagree, & fight for what really matters. Learn to bend - not break!
Q: At the end of bad relationship day, what is the most important thing to remind yourselves?
A: Remember marriage is not a contest – never keep a score. God has put the two of you together on the same team to win.
Q: You got married very young – how did u both manage to grow as individuals yet not grow apart as a couple?
A: Everyone who plants a seed & harvests the crop celebrates together” We are individuals, but accomplish more together.
Q: What was the best piece of marriage advice you ever received?
A: Respect, support & communicate with each other. Be faithful, honest & true.Love each other with ALL of your heart.
Q: Is there anything you would do differently after more than 80 years of marriage?
A: We wouldn't change a thing.There’s no secret to our marriage, we just did what was needed for each other & our family.
Q: Is fighting important?
A: NEVER physically! Agree that it’s okay to disagree, & fight for what really matters. Learn to bend - not break!
Q: At the end of bad relationship day, what is the most important thing to remind yourselves?
A: Remember marriage is not a contest – never keep a score. God has put the two of you together on the same team to win.
Q: You got married very young – how did u both manage to grow as individuals yet not grow apart as a couple?
A: Everyone who plants a seed & harvests the crop celebrates together” We are individuals, but accomplish more together.
Q: What was the best piece of marriage advice you ever received?
A: Respect, support & communicate with each other. Be faithful, honest & true.Love each other with ALL of your heart.
Q: Is there anything you would do differently after more than 80 years of marriage?
A: We wouldn't change a thing.There’s no secret to our marriage, we just did what was needed for each other & our family.
É bonito, chuiff. :P
1 comentário:
oi,
por acaso vi esta entrevista e fiquei, também, bastante impressionada com a clareza, simplicidade das suas respostas, fez-me pensar, que na verdade o que nós gostamos é mesmo de complicar. :)
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